About Us

I created The Too Much Woman™ in a Woolworths parking lot.

I was sitting in my car, about to call my mother, and I could already feel the words dying in my throat.

I knew exactly what I needed to say. I’d rehearsed it for weeks. But the moment I reached for my phone, I felt my body collapse inward.

Just keep the peace. You can do this later. Don’t make it a big deal.

I’d spent 48 years in people pleasing patterns – making myself smaller, being the “easy one,” swallowing my truth. Performing a version of myself that everyone loved… except me.

And I was done.

But knowing you need to stop people pleasing and actually doing something about it? Those are two different things.

I’d tried everything to stop people pleasing:

• Therapy: Helpful, but I needed something for the daily moments
• Journaling: Paralyzing blank pages I didn’t know how to fill
• Affirmations: That felt like lies when I was too tired to believe them
• Self-help books: More information I didn’t need

 

The problem wasn’t that I didn’t know my truth. The problem was that I kept abandoning it.

Every time I was about to honor what I knew, my people-pleasing patterns would interrupt me first.

A lifetime of conditioning would kick in. And I’d choose their comfort over my truth. Again.

I needed something to interrupt the interruption – something that would help me stop people pleasing in real-time.

Something honest. Something that would catch me in the moment and ask: “What are you really protecting here?”

So I created it.

The Too Much Woman™ Digital Card System is the people pleasing interruption system I needed but couldn’t find.

33 questions that cut through the noise.

Combined with The Three Questions Framework™ – a system that bridges the gap between knowing your truth and actually honoring it.

It’s not tarot. It’s not therapy. It’s not another morning routine you’ll abandon by February.

It’s the brutally honest best friend in your pocket who asks the ONE question you’ve been avoiding.

The one that lands in your chest before your mind can talk you out of it.

This is for women who’ve been told they’re “too much.”

Too sensitive. Too emotional. Too intense. Too demanding. Too ambitious. Too loud. Too quiet. Too everything and never enough.

Women who:

• Know their truth but keep abandoning it
• Make themselves smaller to keep the peace
• Are exhausted from performing
• Need real-time support when they’re stuck
• Are done with toxic positivity and spiritual bypassing
• Want tools that actually work, not platitudes

This is for women who are done shrinking.

If you’re comfortable staying small, this isn’t for you.

But if you’re ready to stop silencing yourself?

If you’re ready to honor your truth even when it’s uncomfortable?

If you’re ready to stop choosing their comfort over yours?

This is for you.

We believe:

Your truth matters. Not in some abstract, “everything happens for a reason” way. In the very real, “you deserve to take up space” way.

You already know. You don’t need more information. You don’t need someone to tell you what to do. You need something to interrupt the pattern so you can access what you already know.

Boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re sacred. And you don’t need to apologize for having them.

“Too much” is a lie. You’re not too much. You’ve just been making yourself too small.

Growth is uncomfortable. We don’t do toxic positivity here. If something is hard, we say it’s hard. Real transformation happens in the mess, not in the Instagram-perfect moments.

You don’t need fixing. You’re not broken. You’re just ready to stop abandoning yourself.

TRUTH OVER COMFORT
We’d rather tell you the hard truth than make you feel comfortable. Growth doesn’t happen in comfort zones.

ANTI-TOXIC POSITIVITY
No “good vibes only.” No “everything happens for a reason.” If something is hard, we say it’s hard. We hold space for all of it.

NO SPIRITUAL BYPASSING
You don’t need to “raise your vibration” or “manifest” your way out of hard things. Sometimes you just need to set a boundary and piss some people off.

FOR “TOO MUCH” WOMEN
This isn’t for everyone. It’s specifically for women who’ve been told they’re too much – and are done shrinking to fit.

REAL-TIME, NOT REFLECTIVE
Most tools help you process after the fact. We help you interrupt the pattern in the moment – before you abandon yourself.

LIFETIME SUPPORT
This isn’t a one-time course you forget about. We’re here for your whole journey. All updates, new content, and additions are included forever.

Because that’s what we’ve been called our whole lives.

You’re too sensitive.
You’re too emotional.
You’re too intense.
You’re asking for too much.
You’re just too much.

So we made ourselves smaller. We shrunk to fit. We apologized for existing.

And we’re done.

Being “too much” isn’t the problem.

Making ourselves “not enough” is.

So we’re reclaiming it. We’re the “too much” women. And we’re done apologizing.

When you work with The Too Much Woman™, here’s what changes:

You start catching yourself before you abandon yourself.

You find words for truths you couldn’t articulate.

You set boundaries without apologizing.
You say no without explaining.

You honor what you know instead of ignoring it.

You stop shrinking.

Not overnight. Not perfectly. But slowly, deliberately, repeatedly.

One card at a time. One truth at a time. One moment at a time.

Until one day you realize:

You’re not performing anymore. You’re just… you.

And that’s enough. Actually, it’s more than enough.

It’s everything.

Your truth has been pounding against your ribs, begging you to listen.

This is the interruption you’ve been waiting for.

Email us: support@toomuchwoman.com

We read every email.

We respond to every question.

And we genuinely want to help.

Because we’re not just selling a product.

We’re building a movement of women who refuse to shrink.

And we’d love for you to join us.

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This is not therapy, medical advice, or crisis intervention. For emergencies, contact appropriate professional services.