Frequently asked questions
GETTING STARTED
What is The Too Much Woman™ Digital Truth Card System?
The Too Much Woman™ is a digital truth card system designed to interrupt people-pleasing patterns and reconnect you with what you already know.
It includes 33 thought-provoking questions combined with The Three Questions Framework™ - a proven system that helps you honor your truth without burning your life down.
Think of it as the brutally honest best friend in your pocket who asks the ONE question that cuts through the noise when you're stuck, about to abandon yourself, or can't find the words.
How does it work?
Simple 3-step process:
1. Draw a card when you’re stuck, confused, or about to people-please. Let it interrupt the pattern.
2. Ask The Three Questions:
- What have I been pretending not to know?
- If I honored this truth, what would I do differently today?
- What story am I telling myself about why I can’t?
3. Honor your truth. Journal it. Speak it. Act on it. The cards don’t tell you what to do—they help you remember what you already know. Then you choose.Is this like tarot or oracle cards?
Not exactly. While the aesthetic is similar (mystical, beautiful cards), The Truth Card System doesn’t require any belief in mysticism or spirituality.
Tarot/oracle cards: Offer guidance, predictions, or spiritual messages.
The Truth Card System: Asks questions that help you access your own wisdom
This works through psychology and self-reflection, not magic.
You don’t need to believe in anything except your own inner knowing. It works whether you’re spiritual, skeptical, or somewhere in between.
Do I need to believe in anything specific for this to work?
Nope. You just need to be ready to get honest with yourself.
This system works whether you’re spiritual, skeptical, or somewhere in between. No required belief system. No rituals. No “right” way to do it.
You just need a willingness to stop lying to yourself and start honoring what you already know.
What exactly do I get?
Your complete digital system includes:
33 Digital Truth Cards
Beautiful, mystical cards with thought-provoking questions designed to spark self-awareness and personal growth. Access from any device, anytime.
Complete Guidebook (PDF)
A manifesto-meets-manual that walks you through The Three Questions Framework™ and teaches you how to honor your truth without burning your life down. Includes guidance on resistance, numbness, and what to do when a card doesn’t “land.”
Journal Pages (Printable PDFs)
Sacred spaces for your deepest knowing. Daily activations, weekly integration prompts, monthly evolution tracking, and relationship mapping tools.
Sacred Interruption Audio Guide
Voice-guided companion to help you work with the cards, process resistance, and integrate the truths you’re uncovering.
Lifetime Access + All Future Updates
Return to your truth again and again. All updates, new cards, and additions included forever.
How do I access everything after purchase?
Immediately after purchase, you’ll receive an email with download links for everything: the digital cards, guidebook, journal pages, and audio guide.
You can access them on your phone, tablet, or computer – anywhere, anytime, forever. The links never expire.
Save that email! Or bookmark the links. You’ll always have access.
Is this a physical deck or digital?
100% digital. You get instant access to everything – no shipping, no waiting.
Why digital?
Access from your phone anytime, anywhere
Draw a card in the moment (parking lot, bathroom, 2am)
Never lose or forget your deck
Instant updates when we add new cards
Lower cost than physical decks
Eco-friendly
Want it physical?
You can print the cards at home or take the PDF to a local print shop and have them printed on cardstock.
Can I use this on my phone?
Yes! That’s actually the best way to use it.
Save the digital card deck to your phone and you can pull a card anytime, anywhere:
In the car before a difficult conversation
At the dinner table (in the bathroom)
Before hitting “send” on that text
When you’re about to say yes but mean no
At 2am when you can’t sleep
Your truth doesn’t need ceremony. It just needs attention.
Do I have to do this every day?
Nope. Use it when you need it.
Some women pull a daily card as part of their morning routine. Others keep it for moments when they’re stuck or about to people-please.
There’s no “right” way. Just your way.
The women who get the most from these cards don’t wait for perfect conditions – they pull a card whenever they need an interruption.
I've never done anything like this before. Where do I start?
Start with the Quick-Start Guide (included in your download).
It’s a 1-page guide that gets you drawing cards and asking questions in under 5 minutes.
No prior experience needed. No spiritual practice required. Just a willingness to get honest with yourself.
Day 1: Read the Quick-Start Guide
Day 2: Draw your first card
Day 3: Ask The Three Questions
Day 4: Do it again
That’s it. You’ll figure out your rhythm as you go.
What if I draw a card and feel nothing?
That’s information.
Sometimes the cards we feel nothing about are the ones we’re defending against the hardest. Numbness is a form of resistance.
The guidebook includes an entire section (pages 12-16) on working with resistance, numbness, and what to do when a card doesn’t land.
Try this:
Draw the card again tomorrow
Ask: “What am I protecting by not feeling this?”
Journal for 5 minutes without censoring
Or just acknowledge it and draw a different card
Sometimes you’re not ready. That’s okay. The card will be there when you are.
Is this a replacement for therapy?
No. If you’re in crisis or need professional mental health support, please get help from a licensed therapist.
These cards are for evolution, not emergency.
Think of them as a tool for women who are actively working on themselves and need real-time support between therapy sessions, or for women who are generally okay but want to keep growing.
Get therapy if:
You’re in crisis
You’re having thoughts of self-harm
You’re dealing with trauma
You need professional diagnosis or treatment
Use these cards if:
You’re working on boundaries and people-pleasing
You need real-time support when stuck
You want to deepen self-awareness
You’re ready to honor your truth
I've tried journaling before and always quit. Will this be different?
Yes, because blank pages are paralyzing.
Most people quit journaling because they don’t know what to write. They stare at the page, feel stupid, and close the journal.
The Too Much Woman™ Digital Truth Card System is different:
You’re not facing a blank page – you’re answering one specific question
The card gives you a starting point
You don’t need to write essays – just what comes up
No pressure to be “good” at it
You’re not journaling. You’re having a conversation with yourself. And the card starts the conversation for you.
What if this doesn't work for me?
Then you get your money back. Simple.
Our 14-Day Money Back Guarantee:
Use the system honestly for 14 days. Draw cards when you’re stuck. Ask The Three Questions. Journal the truths that come up.
If you don’t uncover at least one truth you’ve been avoiding – one that shifts how you see yourself or your situation – email us for a full refund.
No questions. No guilt. You keep everything.
Why? Because if it doesn’t resonate, you shouldn’t pay for it.
I'm not very "spiritual" or "woo-woo."
Is this still for me?Yes! You don’t need to be spiritual for this to work.
This isn’t about crystals, energy healing, or manifesting. It’s about interrupting patterns and reconnecting with what you already know.
The aesthetic might look mystical (because beautiful things matter), but the system is rooted in psychology and self-reflection.
If you’re skeptical, that’s perfect. You don’t need to believe in anything except your own inner wisdom.
This sounds intense. I'm not sure I'm ready.
Good. That means you’re taking this seriously.
Here’s the truth: This isn’t for everyone.
If you’re comfortable staying small, don’t buy this.
If you want someone to tell you what to do, don’t buy this.
If you’re looking for a magic fix, don’t buy this.
But if you’re exhausted from abandoning yourself?
If you’re ready to stop shrinking?
If you know your truth but need help honoring it?
Then you’re ready.
And you’re protected by our 14-day guarantee. Try it. If it’s too much, get your money back.
Can I share this with my friends/book club?
The system is licensed for personal use only, which means it’s for you to use on your own devices.
But if you want to use it in a group or share with friends:
Email us at support@toomuchwoman.com and we’ll set you up with:
Individual gift codes (so your friends can get their own copies)
Group licensing (for book clubs, women’s groups, etc.)
Referral codes (you get credit when friends purchase)
We love when women share this work. We just want everyone to have their own access.
What payment methods do you accept?
We accept all major credit cards (Visa, Mastercard, American Express, Discover) and PayPal.
All transactions are processed through PayPal, one of the world’s most trusted payment platforms used by millions of businesses globally.
Your payment information is encrypted and secure. We never see or store your credit card details.
Is my purchase secure?
Yes. All transactions are processed through PayPal, one of the world’s most trusted payment platforms used by millions of businesses globally. Your payment information is encrypted and secure.
We never see or store your credit card details – PayPal handles all payment processing safely.
I didn't receive my download links. What do I do?
First, check your spam/promotions/junk folder for an email from hello@toomuchwoman.com with the subject “Your Truth Cards Are Here.”
Still can’t find it? Email support@toomuchwoman.com and we’ll resend everything immediately.
Pro tip: Add hello@toomuchwoman.com to your contacts so you don’t miss future updates.
Can I get a physical version?
Not at this time. The Too Much Woman™ Digital Truth Deck is currently digital-only.
Why?
Instant access (no shipping delays)
Always with you on your phone
Easy to update with new cards
Lower cost ($47 vs $97+ for physical decks)
Eco-friendly
Want it on paper?
You can print the cards yourself at home or take the PDF to a local print shop and have them printed on cardstock.
We may create a physical deck in the future. If that’s something you’d want, let us know at support@toomuchwoman.com – your feedback helps us decide what to create next.
Will you add more cards in the future?
Yes! And when we do, you’ll get them for free.
Your purchase includes lifetime access + all future updates. When we add new cards, create new journal prompts, or release additional content, you get it automatically. No extra charge.
This is a one-time investment in a lifetime tool.
STILL HAVE QUESTIONS?
Email us: support@toomuchwoman.com
Response time: Within 24 hours (usually faster)
We read every email and genuinely want to help.